I have problems in finding you e-mail adn try here. In one of your "prostate pages" you write "The average male prostate weighs 11 grams, but when your tantric and have slowly built up to an outstanding orgasm, it can weigh over 250 grams, before you ejaculate." Is that really true? Of course I experience that after a long erotic session I ejaculate far more than after a "quickie". But do you have any reference to that 250 grams? I am aphysician and woul be very interested to know!

Wish you all the best!!!

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Hello Seb,
Quick question, was checking out ur site yesterday, which is awsum btw, but cant find where i can buy Fortex.

Any ideas?

thx Kamal

I am not into anything having to do with the butt, but my one and only younger buddy (non-erotic) would probably be interested (-: no doubt..
The descriptions of what you do and how you view it, is very good, appealing, probably a turnon..
We're probably too far away to take advantage of your services (Akron, Ohio, US) but would probably do so if we were closer, and could afford you.. You sound kind of far out, to say the least..!
If you'd only just skip the entire anal area, everything else sounds great.. Touch, massage, hugs, manual and oral stuff, I don't (ever) get any of that.. You may be doing a lot of people a great service, something they couldn't get elsewhere..
(By the way, I wonder if any of these so called 'male enhancement' pills, work..?! I rather doubt it..).
Thanks very much (-:

I think bisexuality can often be quite a lonely journey..."  That is the sad, sad, truth. Even though I have a fantastic wife, she can never fully understand me, though she tries her best. I love her more than words can say. Thank you for the hug. Crazy as it sounds, Every time I read that website "wwww.HUG$.co.uk u", I can feel it. Nothing like being wrapped in the big strong arms of a Man who doesn't question or judge, just understands and gives willingly of himself. Sometimes, often really, I think that it can be more intimate than any sexual act. I've been working off and on for the past year or so on "my story". Far more of it is about confusion, pain, and loneliness than anything else. As cliche as it sounds, it really is a journey of self-discovery. I feel that slowly but surely I am figuring out who I am, what I really need, and how to best mesh that with what my loved ones (and life in general), need from me. For the longest time I thought I was walking a tightrope trying to accomplish this, and only recently realised it's ME that made it a tightrope, and it's only ME that can widen it, turn it into a path, a road, a highway. I'll get there! It won't be easy, but I Will Never Give Up.

Hi Seb, I am 29 in London. Straight to the point I would like to learn to lose my inhibitions and stop being so uptight when i am with another guy

I sometimes get to a point where i freeze and stop enjoying the sensual time

Do you have any recommendations?

Thanks

I am 75 yrs old never sucked a cocks. I would like to now sometime before I pass on. MY cock is not very big 6 ins.I would send a picture of my cock.If I knew how.

Mr Cox; Your web site is amazing, one great topic leading to another. I could cum a dozen times before getting thru half of it. I get to the vergre of cumming then back off and 'turn the page'. I will be in London at the end of September. I know it is a long way off and is too early to book an exact time, but I could not help writing now. Frankly I do not know all I want. I have been vanilla for the most part, but crave something new and different. I want to be dominated, bound and restrained obeying your commands to tongue your body especially ass, crotch and pits. I enjoy natural body odors and rarely get to enjoy them as Americans, as a rule, are so terrified of offending each other with the slightest whiff of body odor. As far as I am concerned the ranker the better, but realize you can yourself and ohter clients to consider. Get to experience at least lying in a sling. Then ending the session with a cuddle and massage. I would rely on your talent and experience to fill in the gaps. Not interested in pain - well maybe a little bit here and there. Hope to hear from you and thanks for your time and wonderful web site, Jim

Seb I'm an 18 year old american gay boy and I was wondering does it make me a "whore" just because I love haveing sex a lot and giveing head and being cummed on. josh

Hello Mr, Cox, The subject of male orgasm seems to be almost forbidden in western society. If I wanted to talk to any of my friends about it, they'd think it was at best most indelicate. Western medecine seems determined to stick to a purely missionary view of male sexual pleasure, and although there is clearly a different tradition in the East, many writers on these traditions seems to regard east as synonymous with obscure. Even web sites frequently talk a load of rubbish one knows they are rubbish from ones own experience. One of the reasons I like your site is that it is much more open and straightforward about the whole subject. I don't agree with everything I read there, either, (no more would you expect me to, I dare say) but at least it seems to point in a sensible direction. All the best,

Dear Seb, One of the most important things which happened in the last times, has been knowing about you. Always wanted to know if sex could be spiritual, if souls can make love... if pleasure could be enjoyed in a less instinctive way. Know I know it's not a dream... you exist! :) Thanks for sharing so many things with us through your website. It's incredible. However my dream will become someday truth when I meet you. I'd like to talk about so many things with you. Have you thought about having disciples? :) somebody hungry of knowledge, willing to learn from zero that sex is not what most people think and make? I guess I can have an appointment with you, as an introductory session, just for asking things and let you diagnose all the expectation and "training" I could need in order to enjoy sex in this tantric way... I guess I'll be able to do it... me and my partner... I just relocated from France. At the moment I have other priorities while I settle down, but I'm sure I'll have the honour and pleasure to meet you and realize that what I always dreamt can be true: you exist! and as far as I know you're the only one, the best one, unique. I recently subscribed to your mailing list, and I'm so pleased that you have new plans and projects. Perhaps I arrived late :( unfortunately I was not here years ago... but never is late for tantra sex, for a new perspective, for a full experience. Again, Seb, thanks for your work and dedication. Thanks for your website. Thanks for being you. A big hug and all my respect...

Hello Seb
Every day I find out that it is impossible to stop my penis from enjoying a good fuck with the wife, or "milking the cow", even at my late age (68). I don't understand very well what makes men want to ooze out cum. Ever since I became a regular wanker in my early teens, I've fought my libido wanting to stop wanking, or wishing to fuck women. I've always been attracted to big dicks, but I have never experienced sucking a man's cock. Of course, even if I consider myself a heterosexual, one always is looking for new experiences, and you web page is amazing showing large dicks. Mine is normal, although I've lost length (about half an inch, measuring now 5.7 inches when erect and 6 inches thick at the base). I love to watch uncut dicks, but also love to watch porno movies, and watch those gorgeous cunts and female Asses. I fantasize a lot, and therefore I wank a lot, at least four times a week. Heterosexual sex with my wife is slow, because of her lost libido. But I guess I'll never find out what makes a man so damned horny, even at my almost 70th decade. I fantasize all kinds of sexual experiences, and in my youth I had my dick sucked twice by gay young men, and I still long for those wonderful male sucks. Women have sucked my nice, normal cock, but nowadays I'm more into wanking techniques in front of my computer. I can't stop being so horny. I guess I'm still so sexually active with myself due to my complete and natural diet, but also due to the fact that my ancestors died in there 90's. How can man stop thinking about being laid, or jerking the tube often. I haven't found out how to stop. I want more sex, more cumming as days and years go by. I sure need another pussy, but I'm afraid of fucking lovers, whores, or even male holes. I'm always thinking how can I enjoy a better wank. I long for better jerk-offs. I long for young women's pussies, I long for a man sucking my winnie, which is normal, but still my dick, and it's the best thing that could have happened to me: Having a 5.7 incher, which gives me outmost pleasure. Thank God for my dick. Thank God for petit morts, thank God, for being alive. Thank God that I can have erections and spurt the "liquid of life", which makes me keep going!

is penis size important, is there a connection between the size of your cock and how masculine you are. Are people who say size is not important telling the truth?

Usually what’s written about Men and their prostate is only about the big "C"(prostate cancer). Hence most think of the big "C" when they think about their prostate. Obviously that's not a very comfortable thing to think about, so most men just don't think about their prostate.
I want to change that. I want men to see their prostate as the very essence of themselves, the center of their sexual energy. I want men to see their prostate as sources of pleasure. I want everyman to know exactly what is prostate feels like. I want everyman to experience the amazing sensations that occurs when his prostate is touched.
In other words I want to replace the big "C" with the big "P". I want men to reclaim their prostate as centers of, "P"LEASURE.
You can help me with my Prostate Revolution by adding your prostate story, poem or experience in the box below. Or you can send it by email to dublinerx@yahoo.com